examples: "Together with our parents" "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter"

Traditionally, your last name is not included if your parents' last name is listed above but is if it's not. Either way, your middle name is usually here.

"son of Mr. and Mrs. John Brown"

write out the date exactly as you would like it to appear, including capitalization, grammar, etc. ex. "January 1, 2012" "The first of January two thousand and twelve"

write out the time exactly as you would like it to appear, including capitalization, grammar, etc. | ex. "at half past five o'clock in the afternoon" "5:30pm"

write out the location exactly as you would like it to appear.

traditionally, only the name of the venue, the city and the state are listed, but if you would like to include the address feel free! | ex. "Portland, OR"

how do you want to word the line requesting the response card get returned? include the date you'd like it back, and make sure to type it out exactly as you would like it to appear, including capitalization, grammar, numbers, etc. :: ex. "kindly reply by january 1st" "Please return by the first of January"

if you'd like, the date (i.e. "january 1st") can be in the script font, giving it a bit more jazz, or kept in the serif for simplicity's sake.

if you would like, we can include a line for you to write how many people the invitation is for. so if you're sending an invitation to a family, but only have room for two guests, you can write a "2" in the line. that way, you're implying you're inviting the parents, but say the husband gets sick the day of, the wife would still feel like she could come with her teenage daughter. :: line reads "we have reserved ___ seats for you" :: if you would like to request that it say something else, type that into the other option.

next is the line(s) where your guests will write their names — what would you like to start that line?

now that you've chosen either "M" or "Name(s)," would you like that in the serif font or the script font?

and your last choice here is whether you'd like one name for your guests to write their names or two! (i know, aaaaalot of detail...)

if you would like, we can include a line for your guests to write how many people will be attending. This will help you better estimate your guest count. :: line reads "number attending: ___" :: if you would like to request that it say something else, type that into the other option.

what would you like it to say when your guests choose "yes"? make sure all capitalization, grammar, etc. is exactly as you would like it :: ex "wouldn't miss it for the world" "Can't Wait!"

what would you like it to say when your guests choose "no"? make sure all capitalization, grammar, etc. is exactly as you would like it :: ex "will be there in spirit" "Can't make it."

who would you like the response card addressed to? you and your fiancé? your parents? write out the name here, and make sure, again, all capitalization, grammar, etc. is exactly as you would like it.

if you'd like, these names can be in the script font to stand out, or in the same serif font as the rest of the address to keep it minimalistic.

the address they will get sent to! again with the capitalization, grammar, etc.

i'd like the wording...

First name will be in capitals and middle and/or last name(s) will be in script.

This can say anything you'd like, but is usually a fun line about the reception "to follow"

as default, this reads: "{parents' names} invite you to celebrate as," but it can read anything you'd like, or be left blank so that your names are first.

default, this reads, "become husband & wife," but it can read anything you'd like, including the groom's parents names, etc. additionally, it can be two lines, but don't get too wordy or it won't fit well! (also, you can leave this blank if you'd like)

This can say anything you'd like, but is usually a fun line about the reception "to follow"

describe the look you're going for—what you imagine changed up, font looks you'd like, layout changes you're wanting, and/or specific fonts and changes. { please note that if changes or modifications are too specific, too extensive, etc. that the charge will be more than $70 (up to $150). if this is the case, i will get back to you with my understanding of what you're looking for, how much exactly it will cost, and what we can do to keep it within the $70. }

if you have any images you've found—with fonts or layouts you like the look of, or colors of your bridesmaids dresses or something, upload that here.

if you have links to things like pinterest boards with images of invites you like, include that here, and descriptions/exactly what you like in the space above.

write out the wording exactly as you would like it to appear on the invitation. you can use the image of the invitation above as a guide if you'd like, but your wording can be anything you would like.

begin by describing your wedding! the look, tone, feel, etc. etc. etc. then what you're looking for in the invite, what you like about the basic design but what you want to change or add to it, etc. list any fonts you like, or specifics you're sure of.

if you have any images you've found—with fonts or layouts you like the look of, or colors of your bridesmaids dresses or something, upload that here.

if you have links to things like pinterest boards with images of your wedding and/or invites you like, include that here.

write out the wording exactly as you would like it to appear on the invitation. you can use the image of the invitation above as a guide if you'd like, but your wording can be anything you would like.

upload the image you would like to use on the front of the response card. if you have a few options and aren't sure which will look best, choose the one you're most inclined toward and we can make changes later. also, the photo will print at about 4x6", and for the best resolution needs to be 300dpi or greater. if it's anything less than that, the photo could be a bit blurry. if you don't have a clue what that means, that's okay—just try and get the picture as "big" as possible, anything from a professional photographer (directly, not from his or her website, but directly from the photographer) will be big enough, or if you take something with your own camera, take it on the biggest setting. if you're still unsure, upload it and i can let you know.

feel free to leave blank anything you don't want included (for instance, you may not want country printed.)

default, your initials, separated by an ampersand, are on top, with the date in numeric form is on bottom. if you'd like something different, outline that here.

what would you like it to say before guests write in their names? default is "names," but also typical is "name(s)," "M," "Mr/Mrs," etc.

by default, there are two lines for guests to write in their names. however, if you would prefer one, just let me know!

how would you like the "yes" response to read—the one guests will check if they are coming. standard is "excited to attend"

how would you like the "no" response to read—the one guests will check if they cannot come. standard is "sorry, can't make it"

(where guests write in how many of their party will be attending, helps you have a more exact number for your caterer, etc.)

(where you write in a number, limiting the number of guests from a family invited. so, for instance, if you only have room/are only intending to invite two members of a family—the husband and wife—and want that to be clear, this is a way to say it. it also indicates that, if the husband is sick on the day of the wedding, you're fine if the 17 year old daughter is the wife's date.)

a place to take song requests!

(a place for guests to choose from menu options, for you to give to your caterer—they will be icons for guests to circle, or the menu items written out if the icons don't apply)

(what are the menu options?)

is there another line you had in mind? would you like to include something about your website, or another line for guests to write in?

feel free to leave blank anything you don't want included (for instance, you may not want country printed.)

anything else to describe about what you'd like on the back of the response card? any notes about what's above? anything you'd like to tell me?

describe what you're thinking for the front of the response card? would you like a picture, as is the default, or something else? would you like your initials and the date? anything about the fonts and/or layout you'd like changed/like to mention?

{ please note that if changes or modifications are too specific, too extensive, etc. that the charge will be more than $70 (up to $150). if this is the case, i will get back to you with my understanding of what you're looking for, how much exactly it will cost, and what we can do to keep it within the $70. }

what do you have in mind for the response card back? what fonts and/or look are you going for? what would you like included (some specifics are listed below, feel free to fill that out and/or describe here)

what would you like it to say before guests write in their names? default is "names," but also typical is "name(s)," "M," "Mr/Mrs," etc.

by default, there are two lines for guests to write in their names. however, if you would prefer one, just let me know!

how would you like the "yes" response to read—the one guests will check if they are coming. standard is "excited to attend"

how would you like the "no" response to read—the one guests will check if they cannot come. standard is "sorry, can't make it"

(where guests write in how many of their party will be attending, helps you have a more exact number for your caterer, etc.)

(where you write in a number, limiting the number of guests from a family invited. so, for instance, if you only have room/are only intending to invite two members of a family—the husband and wife—and want that to be clear, this is a way to say it. it also indicates that, if the husband is sick on the day of the wedding, you're fine if the 17 year old daughter is the wife's date.)

a place to take song requests!

(a place for guests to choose from menu options, for you to give to your caterer—they will be icons for guests to circle, or the menu items written out if the icons don't apply)

(what are the menu options?)

is there another line you had in mind? would you like to include something about your website, or another line for guests to write in?

feel free to leave blank anything you don't want included (for instance, you may not want country printed.)

describe what you have in mind for the response card, list any ideas or anything you've seen that you like.

upload any images of things you've seen and like

link to any pinterest or knot.com boards that have images or ideas of what you like

what would you like it to say before guests write in their names? default is "names," but also typical is "name(s)," "M," "Mr/Mrs," etc.

by default, there are two lines for guests to write in their names. however, if you would prefer one, just let me know!

how would you like the "yes" response to read—the one guests will check if they are coming. standard is "excited to attend"

how would you like the "no" response to read—the one guests will check if they cannot come. standard is "sorry, can't make it"

(where guests write in how many of their party will be attending, helps you have a more exact number for your caterer, etc.)

(where you write in a number, limiting the number of guests from a family invited. so, for instance, if you only have room/are only intending to invite two members of a family—the husband and wife—and want that to be clear, this is a way to say it. it also indicates that, if the husband is sick on the day of the wedding, you're fine if the 17 year old daughter is the wife's date.)

a place to take song requests!

(a place for guests to choose from menu options, for you to give to your caterer—they will be icons for guests to circle, or the menu items written out if the icons don't apply)

(what are the menu options?)

is there another line you had in mind? would you like to include something about your website, or another line for guests to write in?

feel free to leave blank anything you don't want included (for instance, you may not want country printed.)

choose any additional pieces you would like included, and then you'll have an opportunity to fill in your wording and particulars. know that pricing is a bit estimated, depending on the size of the piece as well as the intricity of the design.

what wording would you like for the directions card?

anything look you'd like the card to have, or any particulars you would like?

what wording would you like for the accommodations card?

anything look you'd like the card to have, or any particulars you would like?

what wording would you like for the website card?

anything look you'd like the card to have, or any particulars you would like?

what wording would you like for the info card?

anything look you'd like the card to have, or any particulars you would like?

give the detail of the piece, including any particulars or specifics about the look and/or design.

what wording would you like for the card?

paste the link to your google map here

type in the address for the wedding venue

if there's a separate address for your reception or something similar, include that

if there's anything else more vague you want to make sure is on the map (a major city, etc.), make note of that here

i typically require 4-5 weeks from the time i receive this information (+ the initial deposit) until i ship. making your order rush will cut that time in half, and costs an additional 25% of your total (so if your total is $600, making it rush would be an additional $150)

if you would like to receive your order in 2-2.5 weeks instead of 4-5, check the rush order box below.

this design number arrives to you somewhat unassembled—the doily will be wrapped around your invitation, but the twine will not be cut (there will be enough for your order, however!) or tied with the tag; nor will the other cards be wrapped in the doily (it's because of the way i fold the doilies).

if you would like the invitations fully assembled—everything wrapped and tied up, and stamps affixed to the response card, but nothing put inside the envelopes unless you choose for the envelopes to be addressed below, since it's easier to address envelopes without anything inside them—it's $.50 per invitaiton + the cost of stamps, and you'll be able to choose the stamp you would like.

if you don't want your response cards to be stamped, you won't have to pay for the stamps, you'll be able to choose that below. if you're outside of the US, i'm going to need you to mail me your stamps, and you'll get info on that below.

(and if you've altered the design all of the above may not apply, but you probably get the idea...)

traditionally, you stamp the response cards so your guests don't have to. however, if cost is a concern, no one's going to arrest you for not stamping your response card! so, chooce your option below.

next, go to usps.com and choose the stamp you would like. from this link, i will purchase the stamps for you.

unless you have chosen otherwise, your response card is a postcard, and thus require a $.32 stamp. however, the post office usually only offers one $.32 stamp, and it sometimes doesn't fit with the look of your invitations. if this is the case, you can choose any denomination over $.32 — $.45 or forever, for example.

please note that if you chose rush order above, we may not be able to get the exact stamp design you want, since timing will be an issue.

and if you want to create a custom stamp on a site like zazzle, etc., make note of that below, and we'll talk.

if you want a custom stamp, or have something else to say about stamps, write that here

if you would like your envelopes addressed, with either guest addresses, the return address or both, there are a couple of ways that we can do it. for the guest address printed directly on the front of the envelope, and the return address printed directly on the flap (back) of the envelope, it's a $100 design/setup fee + $.60 per envelope.

alternately, we can print both addresses on a label that wraps around the envelope, so that the guest address is on the front and the return address is on a small flap on the back. that's a $40 design/setup fee + $1.00 per.

if you would like just the guest addresses printed on the front of the envelopes, it's a $100 design/setup fee + $.40 per. and if you would like just the return address printed on the back of each envelope, it's just $.40 per.

for anything that includes the guest addresses, i will need a spreadsheet with your guest names and addresses exactly as you would like them to appear (i.e. Mr. and Mrs. Smith vs. Bob and Mary Smith vs. Smith Family). you can upload that now (you will be able to below), or if it's not ready i will need it within a week.

i can open excel and numbers spreadsheets, i know. all others, upload and we'll see—if i have issues i'll let you know.

again, if you don't have this ready right now that's okay, i will just need it within a week.

what name would you like associated with the return address on the back of the envelope/on the label wrap? (i.e. Bob and Mary, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, etc.) if you don't want a name and just want the address to appear, you can leave this blank.

what address would you like as the return address?

(for british and australian brides primarily)

it is a custom in australia and britain to include the name of the guest on the invitations. since this is not customary in the US, i don't include it in the base pricing, however, i'm more than happy to do it for you!

if you would like the invites to include the guest's name printed on them, there is a $40 setup/design fee, and then it is $.60 per invitation (and the fonts, etc. will coordinate entirely). i will need a list of all of your guests, with their names exactly as you would like them to appear on the invitations (i.e. Bob and Mary vs. Bob and Mary Smith vs. Mr. and Mrs. Smith, etc.), either now (you'll have a chance to upload a file below) or within a week.

if you would like simply a space where you can write in the guest's name, it is only a $20 design fee.

if you are interested in something different, like a tag with the guest's name, check the "other" box and you will be able to describe that below.

write out your ideas or thoughts on including guest names — it could be to replace the tag on the front, or include an additional tag, or a sticker somewhere, etc. once i have your details we'll talk and come up with some options as well as pricing.

please attach a file listing all of your guest names exactly as you would like them to appear on the invites. this can be a word document or spreadsheet, and i know i can open word, excel, pages and numbers documents — all the rest i can try and i'll let you know if i have any problems!

if you don't have this ready quite yet, that's okay, but i will need your guest names within a week.

anything else whatsoever, any notes or comments or questions?